Mutual Connection

Hey Everyone! I have come to realize in the past 5 years that there are a lot of newer doms who join and want to just start asking for money right away. I also know that your a beginner and everyone has to start somewhere. The first tip to you is that even though some subs will provide you with money just because you say it; is very rare. Most subs look for a mutual connection between them and their dom before they allow them full control. You also will have better chance at getting what you ask if you talk and get to know them first. It is always best to learn what makes them tick that way you can get inside their head and control them. Without knowing them you may message them and say something about being a pathetic slave and their response is I am not pathetic. There goes your best chance at getting him. Learn them from their profile before messaging them or if they message you first check their profile see what you have in common then you will know where you stand with talking to them. After 5 years I have had plenty of subs that would do anything for me, but out of all of them I had only had two that I really connected with fully one whom retired from the scene was my best. My point though is to make sure you learn them before jumping into "I am your superior, Pay me". Your relationship will mean a lot more and you will get more out of your relationship if you both connect in some way. You will get more fulfillment and excitement if you both have an connection with one another. Just wanted to put all of this out there for the reading.