The Difference Between FinDommes & InstaDommes!

I have been a Findomme for close to 4 years now and I love it. Yes getting money and gifts from subs/slaves makes me warm inside, but being a findomme is not all about taking money. Findomme is about power control and enjoying the power exchange between Dommes and subs. Lately I have noticed a lot more women joining and speaking as if they are desperate for money and then they get mad when a sub doesn't provide them with anything. Well for all the women joining just for money and gifts; most slaves have been doing this for awhile and they can tell if your legit or not. They are not going to waste their time with someone who they know is just going to take and run. The legit Findommes get a bad name because of you ladies who are just coming in, grabbing, and going. The same for piggy wannabes who come in and promise a Findomme something and then they grab and run with what they can. It is people like you ruining this community. I understand if you realize that you actually have a fetish for power control and you are new to the scene, but the ones who are really trying to get into the scene take the time to study and learn about it. Basically I am just trying to say Legit Findommes are in this for the Financial power exchange and instadommes are only in it for a quick buck.I have been a findomme for close to 4 years now and I love it. Yes getting money and gifts from subs/slaves makes me warm inside, but being a findomme is not all about taking money. Findomme is about power control and enjoying the power exchange between Dommes and subs. Lately I have noticed a lot more women joining and speaking as if they are desperate for money and then they get mad when a sub doesn't provide them with anything. Well for all the women joining just for money and gifts; most slaves have been doing this for awhile and they can tell if your legit or not. They are not going to waste their time with someone who they know is just going to take and run. The legit Findommes get a bad name because of you ladies who are just coming in, grabbing, and going. The same for piggy wannabes who come in and promise a Findomme something and then they grab and run with what they can. It is people like you ruining this community. I understand if you realize that you actually have a fetish for power control and you are new to the scene, but the ones who are really trying to get into the scene take the time to study and learn about it. Basically I am just trying to say Legit Findommes are in this for the Financial power exchange and instadommes are only in it for a quick buck.

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